On Lack of Accountability in Lefty & Queer Communities

Something I always want to talk about publicly but try to rein in (& you all know how bad I am at reining it in) is how we (in the communities I most strongly identify with) just still haven't figured out how to hold our loved ones and ourselves accountable and really do deep transformative … Continue reading On Lack of Accountability in Lefty & Queer Communities

Questions to Ask a B on a First Date

AKA I'mma Be a Single Harpy Forever After being Surprise Dumped rather unceremoniously earlier this year by a person who had until that point pursued me hard & proffered, unsolicited, dreams upon dreams of our future together, I felt, well, pretty much like a greasy fast food bag, with a half-eaten chicken sandwich inside that … Continue reading Questions to Ask a B on a First Date

Drink Warm Lemon Water Every Morning & Watch as These 20 Things Happen

You might be wondering, “Is a breakfast of warm lemon water right for me? Can I at least have a small apple or something with a little fiber in it? Dang.” Warm Lemon Water TM is definitely the breakfast for you. I promise. If you don’t believe me, believe this list of 20 things that … Continue reading Drink Warm Lemon Water Every Morning & Watch as These 20 Things Happen

How Not To Be A Street Harasser

This post is meant to be an (incomplete, imperfect, yet appreciated) resource on the topic of street harassment and how to avoid it, written for cisgender, heterosexual men, by a cisgender, heterosexual man acquaintance of mine. This does not mean this same advice is totally useless to trans* folks, gender non-conforming folks, or queer/other-wise non-binary … Continue reading How Not To Be A Street Harasser